Three Tips to maintain High Energy and be the cool guy in the club and bar.

Three Tips to maintain High Energy and Be the COOL GUY During Night Game when entering club and bar.

"Man is nothing but what he make of himself" Jean Paul Sartre

Have you ever feel like this is not your night and you do not want to be here kind of night at the bar, lounge, or club? I have...many many times. It takes effort, skills and practice to not ever feel like that again and you can be out and about and have fun every single night. Do you want to know how? It begins with YOU, and only you can find the solution to this problem. Many people from the community I found think too much of this whole going out at night things is just a game, a strategy, a way to get laid, to find a girl. They put too much stress onto themselves. THEY ARE TRYING TOO HARD!!! Do not expect is the best strategy I found so far and it's working for me GREAT!
Wait wait, I am not saying do not try. I am saying TRY YOUR BEST to have a GREAT TIME, but DO NOT go out and EXPECT to get LAID! LAID will come when you have a great time and bond with someone!!! Use all your skill to have a great time then what you want will come. And I mean OPEN, OPEN, OPEN just to have a good time then whatever comes next is up to your skill level. Get a rid of your own expectation, BE FREE and do your best. But you have to still do analyze what you do and what will you do next and find your opportunities.

Now that's the State of mind you should have before you go out! And that's the 1st rule of how to maintain high energy when you gaming at night.

1) When arrive, Walk in to the place with a big cocky smile feeling like you OWN this joint! When you do this, notice when you walk around people will smile back at you and check you out! Walk straight, chin up, and cocky smile (not just friendly smile, practice in the mirror if you have to).
Have the right State of mind! Do not put so much stress onto yourself, do not think negatively, be positive, BE POSITIVE. You have to believe it will happen and you have to also think that if the end of the night it doesn't happen then so what there is still tomorrow. Keep doing your best. The thing is when you smile with confident, it send of energy to people that you are confident and interesting. They will receive the signal subconsciously and they will bounce your energy combine with their energy back at you with their smile. You can even make boring crowd smile when you smile. Smile with the attitude! Fake it until you make it!

2) Feed of energy from the Highest energy sets! One of my thing I like to do when I am out at night is OPEN any single bachelorette's party I saw. They are out to have fun, they have tons of women, and they want to socialize with you or anyone. If you come off right, they will love you!!! *One thing to beware of the bachelorette is that do not be tooled, maintain your rule giving and receiving. If they want something, just like any girl in the bar, they will have to give you something. Maybe a kiss on the cheek, a big hug, or something little they wear. You have to reinforce the reward and punishment in any set of girls you are interact with in the fun way of course. If there is no bachelorettes, then find the loudest and funnest set and open them. Feed of your energy early on at night, you will have a great result for the rest of the night.

3) Once you feed off the high energy from the first set, if you do it right, you will already be at the I am the COOL FUN vibe, the it state. Don't stop! Open more, even better open and MERGE the set right next to you. You have to be simultaneous to maintain the level of energy, you cannot let it go down. Though do not be the entertainment monkey, find some group to entertain you instead and cutely pick on them. Merging is one of the best weapon I don't see people around here use much. The thing is, it does give you large amount of social prove and alphaness. At this point, you and your wingman should be set. If there is anything good from these two sets, by all means, go for it. If not, you could borrow/ take away a semi-cute girls from the set and make her a one night PIVOT! They love playing that game if you found the socially intelligent one. Then go open more sets, bring them back and merge or stay or whatever you will!

Well, if you perform well using these three rules, you should be set for the night!

Remember: Do not over thinking it, enjoy the ride you lead! Be happy with yourself first before you can give it to someone and receive it. Do not be bitter, everyone get what he or she really deserved!
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