FiveTips on How to earn her trust and build rapport with a women.

5 Tips on How to earn her trust and build deep rapport with a women.


Trust is something that must be earned. It is an important element of every relationship, but it doesn't come automatically. Though you can build it if you know how. It's part of building rapport with a woman, it is an important part of how to get a deep rapport from a woman so that she can feel you understand her and you can relate to each other in a lot of issues. Thus, you will be closer to one another than ever before.

You can tease her, showing her good times, and make her attract to your quality as a man. But without trust or rapport building or conveying you can be trust. There is no way that she will go anywhere or change venue with you.

I want to let you in on Five KEY TIPS designed to give you a better chance of gaining her trust
upon meeting her.

1) During a conversation let her in on your little "secret." Say something like, "I've never told this to anyone but I am going to tell you. Can you keep a secret? or "Only a few people know this about me, but I am going to let you in on this. Can I trust you? It doesn't have to be anything important, it could be something you did when you were kids or something stupid like you cry during the movie "Forrest Gump" or anything. All it has to be is to send a message that she is in the circle of trust you create. It will tighten the bond, and in return, she would probably do the same thing. *The more it can create the emotional roller coaster from her, the big impact it will has. Depending on how huge the secret is, the more you give, the more you get. You should also look into the art of telling story if you are not good at it.

2) You must show your vulnerability or your soft side to convey your value or ethic. You could tell story about your family and if you have any niece or nephew you can tell funny story about them or how and what you get for them on their birthday. Anything to convey yourself to her that little kids is your soft spot and you would do anything to save them whatever is congruent with your personality. Or if you have soft spot toward animal, wildlife, stuff share it with her, give her more than just a hint, but don't bare it all.

3) Listen to her and show her you understand. Listening is one of the skill that most people lack. You should really learn how to listen to people and try to understand their point of view. Then build rapport with her by share something similar that happen to you, but do not change the spotlight or center of the attention. The spotlight is still on her, give it back, then listen to her more, the more she thinks you understand her, the more personal stuff she will let you in on. Also try not to give advice, unless she ask. Women just want someone to listen and be understood.

4) You must touch and comfort her when she share her personal story with you. This will take calibration skill know when and know how. You should start just padding her shoulder comfortably if she mention something sad. If she comply, then escalate into holding her then release. You have to put yourself into the situation of you two against the world in the moment kind of things. Keep escalating to the point of holding her hand to comfort her if the rapport is getting deep, but nothing sexual.

5) Your body language and eye contact: This is the very first thing women notice about you. Trust yourself, be confident and eliminate your thought of your motive. You body language should convey open, relax, and calm. No fidgeting and don't be nervous, just focus on what she say. Eye contact should be steady, but not too intense unless the moment require (like she describe to you something dramatic) Be sincere and be honest, but also be cool and understanding. If you just get yourself out of your head and really listen to her then everything should fall into place by itself.

Peace!