How to turn a friend into a girlfriend or a lover. 7 steps guide for a nice guy who girls only want to be friend.
Get stuck in the "Friend Zone"?
"The women I wanted to go out with but wanted to be friends with me." is the phrase I commonly hear from guys who just starting out to learn how to really game women. "Friend Zone" often have a negative vibe to it, but it's not so bad, at least they still hang around you. All you have to do is to turn them into "Lovers." First of all, this happen because you have way more comfort than attraction with them. Admit it, you are a push over, have weak personality and not dominate enough. It's time to get your spine straighten! It's not a bad thing, it just not what you are looking for. So stop being nice and stop being a push over and mr. Yes man. Good news is you can turn any attractive friends into a lover as long as you can have them hang around you.
One warning though, do not be head over heels on any particular friends. In other words, DO NOT let yourself fall in love with your friend if you do not yet get physically intimate with her. Do not be weak, love is only in your imagination. Take control of your mind.
If you befriend with women you're attracted to. It's ok as long as you are not overly falling for her. *Remember she is not the "ONE", and there is not just one, there are many. (get it?!) It is one of the best investments you can make and please use the current situation as your advantage. There are benefit you can earn from being friend with beautiful girls.
-You will learn how become comfortable around the type of women you'd like to attract. When you're comfortable around attractive women you will have a vibe that can attracting more attractive women if you are out and about. It is something you cannot see, you will have to experience it.
-You will know how their behave and how they act around other guys. Notice their body languages if they are interested in some and if they are totally disgust by some. You have to observe and get to know their secret of body language. If you do it right you'll master the subtleties and nuances of their psyche, giving you the power to engage and attract these types of women with ease.
-They'll introduce you to their attractive friends from their social circle. You'll have the opportunity to meet and attract all of her friends because you're friends with her (This is social circle game* you will have to play)
7 steps of how to turn a friend into a lover and it will work for everyone.
1) The most important rule of all. if you break this rule, you loose! BE PATIENCE! be very very patience! Find some people who are good at picking up women or join any pick up community near you, hang out with them, learn for them. Learn how to cold approach women and successfully game them. Focus on your skill with other women, let go of the one or ones you want in the first place. This time it's all about you and your improvement as a person.
3) Do not consult her love life or her dating life. You can listen to her and make fun of her, learn how to indirectly destroy the guys she date (AMOGing), but cut the topic short. You have vast advantage, she trust you. *Do not show any intention or sign that you are interested in getting into her pants at all cost. At this point, you show any sign that you want to be her lover, boyfriend, you loose!
Talk about random things or herself, you have to start leading the conversation and be authoritative.
When with her, be casual, be trustworthy, be playful verbally and physically (so she get use to your touch as comfort), BE A GOOD FRIEND that she never have! Trust me, it will pay off!
4) Make them you go pick up girls with you, wing you and be your pivots when you are out and about. Make you intention clear that they will help you pick up chic and have fun with it. You must go with her and socialize with any set (mix set or all girls set) because you can and your weapon at the moment is the beautiful girl next to you. You have to successfully game other women in front of her. (*if you never successfully get digits from girls at bar or club, I suggest you go out with other people and practice that until you get a consistent successful result before you perform with your attractive friend.) It will also show her that you are socially intelligent, other women are interested in you and assertive, women subconsciously cannot resist that.
5) Bring your date out with your attractive friend! Even better, the one you game a night before or a week before. Make sure you get a vibe that your hot friend think she is hot, but better yet the hot ones that your friends secretly don't like because she's on the same league or better looking or have better body.
6) Keep doing what you do #2 and #4 for a few months at least depending on your skill level and be consistent. And by all means if you can close the deal with any of these girls, please do so. You can have then a few girls in your pocket if you are doing it right. These hot friends of yours will see you in a different light and automatically by their nature, they will start to fall for you. On the other hands, once you start to get in the groove with your new skills, you will start feel less attraction for you friends emotionally, but physically and sexually you still want her or them.
7) By this time, you already know what to do around with woman you date. Now her time has come. It's time to take your attractive friend out one by one and game them the same you do with other women. I assure you that at this point, there will be no or very little resistance when you start to make a move because they are subconsciously already attracted to you
Keep up your skill level, date as many as you can. Don't settle into a long term relationship because you are lonely, or she is all you got. Life is not that long, live it up. If you are going to settle, only settle for the best and give it your best shot at life. It's all fair game. Most women are way more cunning and know how to play the game better than we are, it's only fair that's now we can pass on the knowledge to each other and take back the field!
Peace!!!
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